4 Ways You Can (and Can’t) Get Pregnant

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Whether because of broken condoms, forgotten pills, or poor choices after too much tequila, there are lots of surprise pregnancies that come through my practice. But, truth be told, some of these “surprise” pregnancies really shouldn’t be a surprise at all – the couples weren’t using reliable contraception. In fact, it’s not unusual for me to see “being careful” listed as the method of contraception on a patient’s intake paperwork (these women are often back in the office for pregnancy appointments soon after). Even though effective contraception is more accessible than ever, there are still a lot couples practicing alternative or inconsistent means of avoiding pregnancy.

ways to get pregnant - 4 Ways You Can (and Can’t) Get Pregnant

If you’re taking a DIY approach to contraception, and you truly do want to avoid pregnancy, it’s important to understand just how effective (or ineffective) your approach really is:

  • “Withdrawal” or the “pull out” method. This is when the man removes his penis before ejaculation and deposits his semen outside the vagina. This method is ripe with possible errors and has a high failure rate. The first problem is that there can be sperm in the pre-ejaculate (the small amount of lubricating fluid that comes out before or ejaculation), so if you are going to use withdrawal as contraception, the penis should ideally be wiped with an alcohol swab before insertion. The next issue is that, to be effective, the timing would need to be just right. If semen is deposited even at that vaginal opening, then a pregnancy can occur. It should be noted that excessive alcohol intake can impact the effectiveness of this method.
  • Anal s*x. Many women have very short perineums (skin between rectum and vagina), so if you are practicing anal sex simply to avoid pregnancy that’s not the best idea. If semen ends up on the perineum, a particularly good swimmer could swim up through the vagina and find himself an egg. While I’m not aware of any studies that have looked at this, it is theoretically possible to get pregnant from anal sex.
  • “Outer course.” Basically this means foreplay without any penetration (not even the tip!). As long as the semen is not deposited near the vaginal opening, pregnancy should not occur. Sperm cannot live on other parts if the body, it needs moisture to live. Once semen dries, the sperm die. Keep in mind, as with the “withdrawal” method, too much alcohol can further increase the risk associated with this method.
  • Oral S*x. Whether you are on the giving or receiving end, you cannot get pregnant from oral sex. While sperm can live up to 5 days inside a woman’s body, that is only in the vagina not the digestive track. You cannot get pregnant from swallowing semen. Oral sex is not entirely without risk, though – any mouth to genital contact (or genital to genital) can transmit sexually transmitted infections.

If you are serious about avoiding pregnancy, your best bet is to use a medically-proven method of contraception. Your doctor can help you sort out the options and choose the right one for you– and then you can go from “being careful” to being truly protected.

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My grandmother was a herbalist. She taught me how to mix herbs to cure ailments. I grew up with her from the age of 15 years old. I was going to school  and at the same time returned to her shop of herbs learning different kinds of mixture of herbs and also their names. I have been involved in herbal mixture and I also used it to cure a lot of people who orthodox medicine could not cure even though a lot of people have abused herbal medicine. Selling herbal mixture, popularly called agbo, has also been a great source of income to me and my family. Why I Started This Home Remedies Blog As an educated herbalist , i have been into these work for some years now which  I have help so many peoples. One good-day  i thought about people who are not benefit from these like those outside the Nigeria or peoples who are shame  to seek for a herbalist. Then i decides to create a website so as they can contact me and i would gladly help them. I began this blog in 2017 out of a desire to share my passion for herbs and natural living with others. Above all, am a Muslim and am thankful for the daily love and grace Allah bestows me. I’m glad you’ve visited me here at my home on the web and hope you will join me as I continue down the road to healthier living and my mission to help peoples across the nation! Let’s Connect I would love to connect with you!  Feel free to subscribe to receive free regular post updates in your inbox!  Also, you can find me on facebook, twitter,

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